Yes it’s almost that time of the month going back to college and your probably struggling trying to find out where your going to get your keys and how your going to move in. Trust me I’m in the same boat as you it’s Wednesday and I leave Monday to go back to school and I still don’t know the moving in processes once again and I’m a Junior, and you think that schools by now would have a game plan and that it wouldn’t take them so long to give it to the returning students. But no not HBCU school which I don’t understand because they know all this a month or two earlier so why does it take them so long for them to get to the student. Plane tickets been purchased month in advanced and we’ve already communicated with you when the student is coming in and you still don’t have are information this doesn’t make no sense at all. Their no way to avoid the struggle of slow HBCU Schools this how the game goes with them when you go to these’s type of schools you get the best experiences going to an HBCU School but the hassle and the struggle of getting any type of information about anything will take forever. So my key to this situation is to be patient and call them to make sure that you get your information for what you need even look on the website if you have to, but the best thing to do is call them so you can talk to a live person about any questions you might have. Have a good Back to School all you returning College Students
I know we’ve all heard this saying before and I’m sure you’re all tired of hearing it, but I just wanted to write a little something to give hope and reassurance to those that may be going through a long distance relationship. I know from experience that absence really can make the heart grow fonder. I grew up with my mom constantly going out of the country for work for months at a time and saw my parents’ relationship actually IMPROVE from it. They fought less, they missed each other more, and their patience improved. It made them both appreciate each other’s love more and learn the importance of what the other had to say and felt.
So for those of you doubting whether or not it can work between you and your significant other, just know that yes it will get frustrating and you may feel lonely at times, but you also will gain such a deeper appreciation for the other person. Simple things like the sound of their voice or holding hands will seem like the best things in the world. Here are a few tips to keep the love alive and the relationship strong:
- Have a mutual understanding of what you both want. Reassuring one another that you have the same amount of love, care about each other equally, and are putting forth the same effort to make the relationship work will really enhance any relationship; especially a long distance one. Feeling secure and knowing that you are both on the same page is extremely important.
- Don’t OVER communicate. I know you’re probably thinking, “What is this girl talking about?!”, but seriously sometimes less is more. Just because you don’t see each other doesn’t mean you need to compensate that by talking 24/7. It will do more harm than good. Just like when you see someone too often and can start to get super annoyed by their presence, the same goes for if you talk to someone too much. You may think it is helping, but it is actually hurting the relationship. Give yourselves a chance to miss each other.
- Keep the sexual attraction strong. Don’t let the spark die or forget what it feels like to kiss and hold each other. Set a night aside each week for you two to say how much you miss each other in both an emotional and physical way. Flirt a little!
- Communicate regularly. You want to make sure you don’t NOT talk to each other. Seeing a “good morning” and “good night” text lets the other know they are thinking about them and want to make the effort. Sending photos is also a good way to remind your lover that you are trying to include them in your life.
- Be honest. Trust will always be one of the most important things to have in order for a relationship to work. Being in a long distance relationship makes it that much more valuable. Once you lose trust, the relationship will have a hard time recovering, if it will at all.
I hope these tips help any of you going through a long-distance relationship. Whether it’s just for a month, 5 months, or for up to a year or more, these should help you maintain a strong trusting relationship.
Need something new and different to do on the weekends but don’t want to spend too much money? May I suggest a little urban exploration. There’s something about venturing into the unknown and finding abandoned buildings with a group of friends.
Some go to get a thrill, some go to find cool things, and others are interested in finding the beauty of what is no longer what it used to be. I’ve been on many excursions to old abandoned buildings – some at night, some during the day. Usually the ones at night were intended for us to get a little adrenaline pumping instead of sitting bored in our dorms all day. We would walk through, holding hands, heart pumping, always hoping that we’ll get spooked, but not TOO spooked. No one wants to ACTUALLY pee themselves.
Day time adventures are my personal favorite because I can take pictures and actually see the building in natural lighting. Although the buildings are losing their old looks, they’re gaining new characteristics such as vines and erosion that give them a unique, beautiful look. There’s a rich history to be accounted for once you really take a look at them. Each place has a story to tell.
So whether you’re looking for a little midnight scare or a spot to set your camera up, get out of your dorm get in your car, and drive. Here are a few tips to help you on your next adventure.
- Do your research. The worst feeling is to hear that there is some awesome building at a specific location, which you drive all the way to, only to find that your information was out-of-date and now that building has been replaced by a Wendy’s. So before loading up your car hop on your computer to make sure you’re not about to load up on carbs by consuming fries and burgers rather than feasting your eyes on some awesome urban decay.
- Don’t get locked up. Be careful. No building is worth getting locked up for.
- This tip is for those seeking a midnight scare. Make sure to bring a solid group of friends. Have a couple of guys (not just ones that act tough, but would scream like a girl at the sound of a creaking door) to put the more easily scared of the group at ease.
- My last piece of advice is to bring some type of weapon just in case something DOES happen. Perhaps a bat or pepper spray to ward off potential monsters. If there is a ghost, ask if its name is Casper. If it says no, I have no advice. Ghost Busters?
Best of luck!
“BURRR! BURRR! BURRR! BURRR!” It’s 5:00 A.M. and you reach for your phone to turn the most annoying alarm clock tone you could find off. After literally rolling out of bed you pull your sweats and t-shirt on, brush your teeth, grab a granola bar and run out of your dorm to your 6 A.M. practice, which you have to be 30 minutes early to because “If you’re early you’re on time. If you’re on time you’re late.”
For those of you that don’t recognize this absurdity, this is what the average college athlete’s preseason looks like. For two weeks you wake up to that alarm, eat that granola bar, and run your tail off trying to get in shape for the season. This is all before attending a few classes, then an afternoon practice, then more classes, then night practice. That’s right… practice three times a week, for two weeks, every August, for four years.
This is usually the make-or-break moment for students; when they find out if it’s just too much for them or not. For the ones that do make it through those first two weeks, there is some good news: it gets better! Those morning practices will lessen until eventually you will just have one practice every day, along with two or three games a week.
Being an athlete and a student really can be a difficult experience. You REALLY have to know how to manage your time and make sure to get all your homework done in between all of the running around. However, from experience I know that it can also be one of the most rewarding experiences.
You will get stressed, you will feel overwhelmed, and you will want to quit. You may find yourself wondering why you didn’t take the easier route, but after that first month you realize why it’s all worth it.
Below are a list of things that I learned and gained from my experience as a student-athlete:
- You learn how to be passionate. There’s something to be said about someone who chooses to commit to a sport in college, especially when you aren’t getting a scholarship to play. This dedication will flow into your life later on and then no matter what your dreams are you will go after them. Someone who is passionate about something can go a long way.
- Time-management. I learned that this is one of the most important things to implement while being a student-athlete. You’ll want to hang out with friends, make new friends, go on adventures, and maintain a 3.0 GPA or higher, all while still wanting to kick ass in your sport. It can be tough, but if you’re able to manage your time efficiently and prioritize then you’ll do just fine. By my second year I really understood what it meant to manage my time and now I’m almost a pro. ALMOST.
- Patience. You’ll never be alone. Every single day you will be with the same group of people. Sometimes you will get tired of them, sometimes you will fight in the locker room, either way you have to find a way to get along with one another. If not for each other, for the team. I witnessed so many of my teammates go at each others throats (figuratively) over silly arguments or gossip, but then after a couple of days get over it and become best friends again. When you’re stuck with people you pretty much learn how to live with each other. For better or for worse.
- Your body needs you. I never realized how important exercise and what I eat and drink were until playing soccer in college. If you don’t stretch enough you’ll tear something, if you stretch too much you’ll tear something, if you eat too little you’ll wear your body out, and if you drink a little too much you’ll feel like a slug the next day at practice. (No, I’m not talking about drinking water..) It’s all about balancing what you eat and how much you exercise.
- You will have a home away from home. Being a part of a college team allowed me to make friends that I will have for life. We all endured the same early practices, injuries, and “tough love” from our coach. We became a family. If you saw one of us in the cafeteria, you saw all of us.
I could literally write a book about what it’s like to be a student-athlete, but for now I hope this gave you enough insight. Just remember: it’s a strange, stressful, crazy, but amazing experience that you will grow so much from. (Not to mention, getting up for work in the “real world” will seem like a piece of cake!)
As a college girl myself, I am always looking for ways to cut corners when it comes to spending money. We all know that being a college student can be quite expensive, but happens when you barely have money left to maintain your beauty needs? You find cheaper options! Here are a some of my favorite ways to keep it cute on a budget.
Shop e.l.f.! My favorite cosmetics line is e.l.f. Cosmetics for two reasons: their products are of great quality and they are super cheap! You can get makeup/makeup tools for as low as $1 on their site and in Target. If you sign up online, you get free shipping offers and coupons once in awhile which is another bonus. One online purchase that I made only came to the total of about $3 (including my free shipping code) and that included three lipsticks all on sale for $0.49 (you read that correctly) and one tube of lip gloss for a little over $1. You cannot beat those kinds of deals!
Try wigs! No, I don’t mean borrow your grandmother’s wigs, but there are tons of sites with really cute wigs for low prices. I have not personally purchased a wig yet, but after watching numerous wig reviews on YouTube, I am convinced that wigs are great options rather than getting expensive sew-ins. If you’re not completely sold on trying out a wig, sites like http://www.wigtypes.com and http://www.sistawigs.com carry inexpensive weaving hair as well. Here’s a look at one of my favorite YouTubers who made me fall in love with this idea:
Thrift, thrift, THRIFT! I am a huge believer in the saying “one man’s trash is another man’s treasure,” especially when it comes to thrifting for clothes! I find all of my vintage looks from thrift stores for $3-$10 while other stores sell these looks for way more. A thrift store is also a great place to find business casual pieces which are necessities for almost all college students! Check out http://www.thriftingatlanta.com to participate in their thrifting bus tours!
D.I.Y. Learning how to do my own hair and makeup has saved my pockets many times! We often pay money for glam before events and such, but knowing how to do these things on your own can help you save those coins. Don’t know how to “do it yourself?” YouTube is your best friend. I watch YouTube tutorials more than I check my other social media! This has been super beneficial to my attempt to glam it up for less!
Let us know what tips and tricks you use!
Michaela C, Associate Editor
Last weekend, Bland was pulled over in Waller County, Texas by a State Trooper for a traffic violation and was later arrested for allegedly assaulting a public servant. On Monday morning, Bland was found hanging in her jail cell. The death was ruled a suicide; however, those who were close to Bland say that she would never kill herself.
Bland was very vocal against police brutality and racism using the hashtag #SandraSpeaks. She was actively involved in the community as a member of Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc. and she had just landed her dream job. Bland is described as someone who had a positive outlook on life and had everything to live for, which is why those who knew her and know her story suspect foul play.
Texas Rangers are investigating Bland’s death, but a petition is drawn to have the federal government take over. There’s also a petition to have an autopsy performed outside of Waller County.
Sandra Bland was moving from Illinios to Texas to start her new career at her alma mater, Prairie View A&M University. She would’ve started on Wednesday.
Watch Bland’s arrest below.